What I have to say about bullying...

I just wanted to write about something that has been on my mind for a long time now.  This is a subject that is very hard for a lot of parents and that is bullying...  But the one thing that I would like to touch on is how now-a-days people have turned this into sport!  with all the FAKE REALITY on t.v we have our young boys, and girls calling these people role models!!!  I am like this if someone tells me not to bully someone but 5 min. later I see them talking shit about or to someone else then I truly have not respect for them.

The media is trying to being bullying to light, but I am not so sure that they are going about it the right way.  What alot of people do not realize is that it all starts at home.  As parents we are supposed to protect our children and teach them right from wrong...Or at least that is what my mother taught me!!  From birth until that child is old enough to make decisions on his/her own that child should be taught not to pick on other people that have less then they do!  I have walked into countless shop's, stores, and other places and seen the mother/father looking down at another person like they are a piece of gum stuck to the bottom of a shoe!  To make things worse they will have the child with them!!!  Someone tell me...What is the one thing that all parents should know about the child????...Do not know???...THE CHILD LEARNS FROM THE PARENT!!!!!!!  So when a child sees or hears its parent being a complete dick face he/she is going to do the same!!!!!


Another thing that alot of parent do not realize is that if you do not show that child any discipline at a young age then by the time they hit 12 you will never be able to do anything to them!!  Which is how the Bullying stats!!!  The child will go to school and all it takes is just that one time to get a way with something and that is it!! the first time starts at home and if you let them get a way with it at home then when they do hit school age you will not be able to stop them!!!  But the one thing that really ticks me off is when you have a parent who thinks that their child can do no wrong!!, but the little monster is the one causing trouble, and if the parent has money or some kind of lea way then that child will get away with everything.

You can have all the celebrities in the world say stop bullying but it will never stop until parent stop trying to be the child best friend and own up to the fact that alot of you parents have children that bully!!!

The wonderful M.N Challenge~!~...And other things...

             Hello loves I am sorry that I am sorry that I have been M.I.A for some months....I just lost my Grandfather this year in the month of March.  So my mind has been on him, and the fact that he will no longer be with us (he will always be in our hearts)...It is kind of messed up because my oldest son just turned 5 in march as well  so it was kind of a bitter sweet thing.  Okay now moving on...One thing that I have been wanting to talk to you all about is the M.N Challenge~!~...I had stopped for a while because I was doing Quick weaves to my hair LoL. 

             This is how my hair looked last year in Nov, 15 2011.  Due to alot of stress and other things in mylife at that moment  I has lost my hair in a matter of days~!~  But thanx to alot of Research I was able to find a cure to what was going on with my hair;  That Is the Micanoazole Nitrate aka M.N~!~  Without this product I do not know what would have happend to the rest of my head lol...sad but true.  I still keep to what I said I was going to be doing thru the whole prosses...Well I added one thing.  I use shampoo every now and then.  This is to make  sure that my scalp is clean because even when you think your hair is clean you're scalp can still be dirty which can lead to hair issues!  As women and men we do not want that now do we!!!...

With that being said I am going to show you a pic of how things are going so far!!!




HAPPY HAIR GROWING!!!!!!!

P.S you can check out my youtube Page as well~!~  The name of my page is Juicyfruit20ful  and I just uploaded a video as well!!!!!!

The wonderful M.N. Challenge~!~: Preview talk!!!

Hello world~!~  I am so sorry that I have been M.I.A for a while, but I am hoping that everyone in the world has had a happy holidays and a wonderful new year~!~   I have come to talk to you all about how my challenge is going...I think that it has gone good from when i first started lol.  Now i am not sure about how much growth I have gotten from doing this but i do know that i can not run my fingures thru my hair with out catching a kink~!~   I am sorry that I wont have any pix on this post because it is manly a preview and I am also not on my own computer.  I have to say that I am glad that I made the choice to use the Miconazole nitrate(monistat 7) because I was sure that the spot in the back of my head would never even get the length that it got to now:)  With that being said I will leave you with this note...Never rule out the crazy idea, because that might be the best one to shoot for lol.  Happy hair growing and learning~!~

My review on the book the secret~!~

Today is Dec. 20, 2011 and I am here to talk about something that I know a whole lot of people have been talking about sense the year 2006... THE SECRET.  Now I know that I said I would talk about this book a little... so that is what I am doing right now.  The book was written by Rhonda Byrne in 2006 when she was going through some things.  One day she was at the end of her rope kinda.  She said that her life was just falling apart all over the place when her daughter found a book at the library.  In hopes to see her mother happy again, she checked out the book and gave it to her.  She read the book and was shocked to find that  the answer to all her problems were in this book.  Without any delay she began her research on this topic and soon discovered that many famous people through out history used this!!  So she decided to continue her search by looking for people that still use this wonderful thing today!!  She found that so many of our famous people of today are indeed still using this!!!  Not sure as to what was going to happen her and her film crew went out in search of these people and if  I am not mistaken the film what made in about a year(I think?). 

This is something that she wanted the world to know so she compiled everything that she knows and put it in her book and movie.  If you are wanting to find out what THE SECRET is then I am going to tell you my sum of it because to me the way I feel about the book is that it might have the same words but what we all get from it is not the same.  If you are a person that believes in god then you already know that when you pray to him for a blessing he will give it to you.  The only thing that he is asking for you do to do for him is to just believe in him, and to know that he has your back.  Now I know that we have a lot of people out in the world that don't want to think that blessings just fall out of the sky  all because you just asked for them....your wrong!  I know of that because I have two beautiful little boys that I love so much.  I have been in situations where I could have lost my life.  So trust me when I say I do believe!!!   I am not trynna rag on any ones faith but if you have the faith, and you know that someone is watching over you that is all you really need. 

I myself am going to start following the book, but something that I realized is that when you ask for what you are wanting you cannot keep talking about it because....It is like when you were in school and you did not want to be there so you keep checking the clock on the wall to see if the clock was going to say 2:45 p.m,  and the shit felt like it was going to take forever!!  so you start thinking that the clock has stopped lol.  That is how everything is when you think about it because if you do not think about what time your are going to get out of school the time just fly by and before you know it you are on that bus going home!   I will say this... the book is the shit for me I feel that you really need to go out and buy it or at least go and check out the website... www.thesecret.tv 

For me I have a lot of faith that this book will work for anyone and everyone because when you read it some of the statements in the book will make you think about a moment in you past where something from that statements nature sounds kinda like yours.  With that being said I give the book a most def. 10!!!!!  So I really think that you need to get your copy today or at least check out the website!!!

The wonderful M.N Challenge: Week one~!~

Hello to everyone and anyone that is reading my blog!  By now you already know that I have been doing the M.N challenge for a week now, and I have to say that it is going good so far!!  The only thing that I am having with the side effects is the itchy scalp and that is about it.  I have been doing all the things that I said I was going to do so that is good for me because I am one for not following my one rules lol.  The one thing that I have noticed is that the back of my head is growing like crazy!!!!!! I went from seeing my scalp to now it is not showing at all, but i still have a long way to go tho'.  I have not gone anywhere much so my style is just keeping my hair wrapped up everyday.  Today is Monday Dec. 19,2011 so you know what that means...WASH DAY!!!!!  I washed my hair at 8:00 with conditioner only so now I am going to let my deep conditioner sit on my head until 6:00 p.m tonight...Now mind you the only thing that I am using is OLIVE OIL& CONDITIONER.  I have my hair covered with a plastic cap and my sleeping cap just to make sure that the heat stay in.

Now that I said that I want to talk to you all about another thing that I am going to be doing.  In the year 2012 I will be doing another kind of challenge which I will post about tomorrow.  What kind of Quest you say....The Secret!!!!  I am in the proses of reading the book right now,and I will say this... This book is the shit!!!!!!  Everything that I have read so far in the book made me really think about alot of things that has happened to me in my past and even right now.  You have to get this book if you have not already~!~  I will be talking more about that tomorrow plus the website where you can read more about it as well as what I am going to be doing for the whole challenge!...So just stay tuned for it OK!!!

I will not be posting any pictures on this challenge of the wonderful M.N challenge because I want to save everything for the end OK!  I think that you will be very shocked at the results lol!!  With that being said I will post more next week about the M.N challenge and tomorrow about my new challenge the secret!!!  Until the love you all!!!!!!!

The wonderful M.N. challenge~!~

         Like I said in my post about the Miconazole nitrate vs. Mega tek  I was going to try the M.N. again for the whole thirty days!  Well today is monday dec.12,20ll, and I am starting it now.  One of the things that I love about the Miconazole nitrate is that it does work, but the only prob. that I have with it is that it will make my hair dry as crap but that is what moistureizers and oils are for right?  When I first heard about Miconazole nitrate i was looking for different things to grow my hair back out, and my search lead me to YOUTUBE!!

 I found so many different things on the website but the one that peeked my intrest the most what this thing called M.N.  Not knowing what it was I clicked on one of the videos, and that is when I found out something new.  Monistat7 was what the M.N was.  My first reaction was laughter, but after a short time of looking at different people I came across one video that made me take a second guess about it.  The video was My hair journey by Chavascandy.  In the video she showed how she was having some trouble with her hair and with that she cut it off(the big chop).  While trying to grow her hair back out she decided to use a growth aid...Miconazole nitrate.


        I thing that in the video she showed pics over the course of growing her hair again, but in Aug of 2011 she did it again with the Grate M.N Challenge!!  Augest 3rd. was when she started and she finished in October of 2011.  Her goal was to reach BSL(Bra Strap Length)  And she did.  That is what inspired my to do my own M.N chalenge!  Starting today I will be doing my Thirty day challenge~!~   I know first hand that the stuff really works, but now i am ready to do it for the full time!!  Last month for some reason i lost my hair in the back of my hair( stress related) and in that two weeks time i grew some hair(pix at the bottom).  Now some if not all of the things that i am going to be doing for my hair i got from Chavascandy.  So the list goes as followed:

What i will need

1.Miconazole Nitrate
2.Olive oil
3.Clean empty jar

What i will not use
1.No heat
2.Petroluem based products
3.combes
4.shampoo

What i will do
1.Co-wash hair weely
2.Wet wrap hair
3.Deep condition every week(right after co-wash)for 8 hours
4.Apply M.N mix every day
5.Only use brush on wash day
6.Seal my ends everynight
7.Keep my hair in a protective style at all times

This is what I am going to be doing over the next thirty days.  I am so ready to get started.  Now because today is monday it is wash day for me, so right now I am deep conditioning my hair right at this moment.  I will wash this out aroung 6:00 pm tonight and put the M.N. mix on my scalp then, and continue to do it everyday like I said.  Thank you all for reading, and it you are all like me then I want you to think about it, do your research also before giving it a try.  With that being said wish me luck!!!!



P.S.  I want to say thank you to Chavascandy on YOUTUBE for all of her wonderful videos They really helped me out!!!!!

Product review of: the silver bullet

    This is my first product review! I am so happy to be doing this on the one item that I can not live without...drumb roll please!!...THE SILVER BULLET!!!!  Yes I am talking about the little wonderful gift that is known world wide, and if you do not know about it then you need to get your ass in the fucking game...like know!!  One of the many things that I adore about it is the fact that I can take it any and everywhere I go.  The small, compact toy can go in your back pocket or in your hand bag lol.  Now we all have our moments when we just cant wait for our mate to give us what we need, but another good feature about the BULLET is that it can be used with a partner(when you need that extra stimulation) :).  You can either take it fast or slow, I will say this when I first used it I put it on fast first and the damn thing made me scream like hell!!!  My clit was jumping so much after It touched it that when I did it again I came so hard and so much!!!!lol. 

    If you are in a realationship and things are getting a little slack then this is just for you!  One of the things that I want to try is to see if I can fuck with it inside me when my boyfriend gets home.  With all of that being said...If you dont know what to get for your first time or you dont feel confrotable walking into a store like Adam&Eve then the website that you need to check out is www.edyenfantasy.com  reall talk this website is the shit when it comest to there toy game.  If I had known about it the first time I got it, then I would not have to leave my house lol...EVER!!  right now they are having a sale on the SILVER BULLET the price of it now is $20.99 (which was $34.99 before).  So go check it out like a.s.a.p....before I forget anything else I have a list of what I think are some of the fun facts about it!!!


SILVER BULLET FUN FACTS:

1. Small and compact
2 Multi functional
3. You can take it on the go
4.  Can be used by both partners
5.  About 2" in length
6.  Pulses through though the whole shape of the bullet
7.  Can use two AA bateries
8.  Very sleek and smooth
9.   Very versatile

10.  A MUST HAVE!!!!